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愛情金句——暗戀篇

愛情這東西真的很奧妙,很多人需要,很少人得到;付出的和收獲的,不一定成正比。有人只收不給,但又未必是想像中的那麼快樂。有人只付不取,但又難得的自得其樂毫無怨言。

因為我願意聆聽,所以有很多人向我傾訴。他們的故事不論是苦是樂,似乎都只是過程,到底是到達終站的人少還是到站後的已經不用再找人傾談?

“True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen.” — La Rochefoucauld
「真正的愛情就像鬼一樣,很多人談論,但很少人看見。」

唯有愛,是令人無條件的給予,即使是對方沒有要求,即使沒有回報。

“Love, true love, is that which can give the most without asking or demanding anything in return.” — Mazie Hammond
「愛,真正的愛,推使人給予,且不求回報。」

矛盾的是很多人口說不求回報,但心內其實對於未能被愛而不歡。其中很多以為只要有毅力、有恆心,相信終有一天可以感動對方。但事實上,愛情這東西,不是一分耕耘一分收穫的;它比較像賭博,不下注,當然不會嬴,但下注多了,亦未必會嬴,隨緣。

“It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations.” — Khalil Gibran
「愛,不是由長期陪伴和不屈不撓的傾慕而產生的。愛,是由精神親和繁洐而來的。而這份親和拉力往往在一瞬間誔生,不會隨時間年代培養產生。」

如果你不享受單戀,那就不要長期暗戀。告白可能會失敗,但亦有嬴的機會。

“To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best.” — William M. Thackeray
「付出愛又嬴得被愛,是最好的。付出愛而得不到回報,那是其次的。」

很多曾經失戀的人害怕再付出,怕再受傷害。其實,愛情總是有甜的時候,有苦的一刻,就是這種多滋味,使愛情吸引。

“Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.” — St. Augustine
「曾經愛過,即使失去,都要比從來未愛過的好。」

愛,即使受傷,也嬴得經歷,擁有回憶。

“You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.” — Barbara De Angelis
「你不會因為付出愛而輸掉,你只會因為退縮而輸掉。」

被暗戀的,請讓戀人進入心底。

“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” — Morrie Schwartz
「人生最重要是學習愛和被愛。」

在拒絕之前,好好想清楚。若你不願失去對方,可能你也在戀上對方。

“Never say goodbye when you still want to try.
Never give up when you still feel you can take it.
Never say you don’t love a person when you can’t let go.” — Dons

「如果仍想嘗試,那就不要說再見。
如果仍可接受,那就不要放棄。
如果不能放手,那就不要說不愛對方。」

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